::nods:: Yeah, House is a perfect example of this sort of thing. How many people hate on him, versus how many people hate on Cuddy, Thirteen, Stacy, and Cameron? But if he was Gina instead of Greg...

ETA- I think a lot of the girls don't have the self-awareness, the education, or the mentoring to realize just what it is they're doing. They're the ones I really wrote this for, but they're probably not going to see it or think about it, in the end.