assumptions from other people come with any decision you make. I've discovered that having three kids mean that people tend to assume that either A) i don't know how to use birth control or B) i must be one of those crazy christians who have 20 kids. and, as you know, neither of those is true.
I'm glad there are people out there who don't want kids, cause, hello, population problems? but i will admit that sometimes i resist the temptation to be all like "of course you should have kids!" because i really enjoy it so I don't understand why other people don't. it's like, i have this friend who doesn't like joss whedon. he doesn't like anything he's done, not even avengers. and he's a smart guy. i don't understand how it's possible! but i don't say "dude, you do like it you just don't get it yet." i just accept that i don't understand his opinion.
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Date: 2012-05-28 07:59 pm (UTC)I'm glad there are people out there who don't want kids, cause, hello, population problems? but i will admit that sometimes i resist the temptation to be all like "of course you should have kids!" because i really enjoy it so I don't understand why other people don't. it's like, i have this friend who doesn't like joss whedon. he doesn't like anything he's done, not even avengers. and he's a smart guy. i don't understand how it's possible! but i don't say "dude, you do like it you just don't get it yet." i just accept that i don't understand his opinion.